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9月6日

The Other Side of Midnight: Plight of Street Children.

             Friends, I would like to share with you an article which appeared in today's newspaper ( The Hindu, Bangalore, Sept. 6, 2009).

It highlights the terrible plight of our country's street children, and how they have to struggle in order to survive without a proper family to return to or the basic amenities of life. If anyone needs help on a first priority basis, it is such children.


— PHOTO: SUDIPTO MONDAL

What’s in store?: (From left) Shilpa, Sheila and Ammu at a short-stay home for distressed children in Mangalore.

MANGALORE: Three intoxicated street children found snorting handkerchiefs soaked in petrol and wandering aimlessly near Ambedkar Circle (Jyothi Circle) here were rescued by some local people and handed over to the District Child Welfare Committee (CWC) late on Friday night.

The children are siblings and have been identified as Sheila (9), Ammu (7) and Shilpa (5). They have been admitted to a short-stay home for distressed children under the care of the CWC.

In startling revelation, the sisters told the CWC members that their father, Shivanna, killed their mother, Chandramma, two years ago by crushing her head with a boulder. He also sold their brother, Raju (4), for money.

While the two younger girls barely speak, Sheila went on to add that she could show where her mother’s body was buried and identify the person to whom her brother was sold.

According to the Juvenile Justice Act, said CWC member Geo D’Silva, the statement given to the CWC enjoys the same status as an FIR (first information report) registered by the police.

“My father killed my mother and sold my brother Raju to a security guard for a lot of money. He would have sold us too, so we ran away,” said Sheila, speaking to The Hindu on Saturday.

Family torn apart

She also said her eldest brother Gopal is in jail for felony. Jail authorities confirmed this and said Gopal was a habitual offender who had spent several short stints in jail. Jail sources also added that he often talked about his three little sisters and a teenaged younger brother.

Asked if she had another older sibling, Sheila said, “Yes, his name is Babruvahana. He is in the remand home for theft.”

When CWC members cross-checked this claim they found out that Babruvahana was indeed in an Observation Home for juvenile delinquents managed by the Juvenile Justice Board and is 15 years old.

Sheila also said her two elder brothers took to petty crime and the sisters ran away only after her mother’s death.

She said she had studied up to the second standard, and her elder brothers went to school when their mother was alive. Although her elder brothers lived separate lives now, the five of them met occasionally. Her brothers also periodically gave the sisters some money.

Sheila said she and her sisters were often harassed and assaulted by fellow street people, shopkeepers, autorickshaw drivers and even policemen. It perhaps explained the look of terror on the girls’ faces when they were put in a police jeep and transported to the children’s home on Friday night.

When they were found, the girls were dressed like boys in shirts and trousers. Their hair was cropped short.

“You don’t know how some men are on the streets. They would have done bad things to us if they found out that we were girls,” said Sheila.

Sheila said they started snorting petrol, petroleum glue and other cheaply available intoxicants to overcome hunger pangs.

They were taught to snort these intoxicants by a group of children who also live on the street. “Thumba majaa banthu,” she said in Kannada, which roughly translates to “It was very enjoyable.”

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Most of us are aware of the grim side of life but after reading this article, you will find yourself not only thanking God for providing you with such a secure life but also wondering how to help underpriviliged people.
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9月4日

Recent experience of child after "bunking" school.

                   Almost all of us have experienced this at one point in our lives. Try to recall your High School days, the vast portions to be "mugged", burning the midnight oil prior to the exams etc. Recall also,  the stress levels of trying to complete your never-ending revision and coping with giving attendance at school. Most of us would also remember those days of secret conspiracies of "mass bunking", when the majority of the class would agree to miss out one working day when exams were knocking at your door.
               This week, my daughter, a High School student, debated whether to attend school on Tuesday, as the First Term Exam was commencing on Wednesday (i.e. the very next day). The school, in turn thought it had done a big favour to the children by declaring Tuesday ( the one day prior to the Exam day) as a half day. After much deliberation and calculation, both she and I came to the conclusion that, given the huge portions staring at her in the eye, and the time wastage involved in to and fro travel, it would be wiser to "bunk" school, rather than attending it. 
                 As the day progressed and my daughter was rather wrapped up in her studies, she received a frantic call from one of her  class mates who had actually taken the trouble to attend school, that the school authorities are livid over the mass absenteeism, and all those who would be coming the next day to answer the exams would have to produce a plausible reason or valid medical certificate as a reason for their absence; failing which, a total of 55 marks would be deducted from the aggregate marks in the final report.
                I didn't know whether to thank the class mate for this information or not, at that point of time, because I was left to deal with a double-tensed child who could no longer concentrate on her studies after hearing this news. Both of us, mother and daughter, came to the conclusion that we'd have to come up with a great reason for not turning up at school the next day, or we would have to face the depressing consequences of marks being deducted.
                That same evening, I found myself at a local doctor's clinic. Thankfully, there were no other patients that day, and, after some frank explanations of my situation at home, the doctor cooperated and wrote down a 'certificate', stating the reason for my child's absence. Filled with gratitude and guarding that all important document, I rushed home, and leaving no stone unturned in retrieving my daughter from the grim prospect of having to lose marks, I also wrote a hand written note to the school.
                The next day, which was the day of Commencement of Exams, I waited anxiously for her to return from school. To my relief, I saw her smiling. She recounted everything that happened that morning. Apparently, nearly 70% of the class had been absent, and the Principal gave them all a tough talk. Most of the students who could produce medical certificates were pardoned, but a good number had not made it. I feel sorry for those children, if the school Principal is really going to go ahead with those threats.
                  This experience made me think about our schooling on the whole. Why should the higher class students have to compulsorily attend school, one day before the exam, on a day when no other teaching would be undertaken? Why are they demanding an explanation from around 30/40 students for being absent? Isn't it very apparent that they had taken leave to study? Wouldn't attending half a day of school leave them feeling exhausted and running severely out of time? It's high time our schools thought more practically and not force the children and their parents into a corner, making us certified liars ? Schools, please wake up and take note.

                 

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